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Tuesday, December 17, 2024

God will dwell in peaceful hearts

each must make a safe place of his heart,
before so strange and wild a guest
as God approaches.
- Li-Young Lee
I really like this poem. It makes me picture God as if He were a wild, yet peaceful and curious, animal. With an animal like that we must first show it that we mean it no harm before it will approach us. Similarly, with God, we must make our heart a peaceful place where He can dwell. If we do that then He will come to us.

Source: Li-Young Lee's Nativity

Monday, December 9, 2024

Covenants bring strength

Turn with me to Mosiah 24:13. In this chapter we find that Amulon is persecuting Alma and his people. Verse 13, “And it came to pass that the voice of the Lord came to them in their afflictions, saying: Lift up your heads and be of good comfort, for I know of the covenant which ye have made unto me; and I will covenant with my people and deliver them out of bondage.”

Please note that in verse 13, deliverance is focused in covenants. The beginning is covenants. Covenants and the associated ordinances properly performed in the authority of the priesthood, [please listen], open the door to the fullest possible range of the blessings of the atonement of Jesus Christ. In other words, you can’t have access to all of the blessings of the atonement of Christ unless we receive the ordinances of salvation and make the associated covenants. In the Doctrine and Covenants it says that in the ordinances of the priesthood, specifically the Melchizedek Priesthood, the power of godliness is made manifest. And without the ordinances of the priesthood the power of Godliness is not made manifest unto men in the flesh (D&C 84:20-21).

Well, what is the power of godliness? It is the full range of the blessings that come through the atonement of Jesus Christ. And without priesthood ordinances we cannot have access to those blessings. That’s why we find in verse 13 a focus on covenants. Verse 14, “And I will also ease the burdens which are put upon your shoulders.” You’re not going to like the way this happens, because when we read that first line, Oh, good, the Lord is going to take it away from me, make things easy. No. “And I will also ease the burdens which are put upon your shoulders, that even you cannot feel them upon your backs, even while you are in bondage; and this will I do that ye may stand as witnesses for me hereafter, and that ye may know of a surety that I, the Lord God, do visit my people in their afflictions.”

Now watch this in verse 15, “And now it came to pass that the burdens which were laid upon Alma and his brethren were made light; yea, the Lord did strengthen them that they could bear up their burdens with ease, and they did submit cheerfully and with patience to all the will of the Lord.” Did the burden change? No. Did the people change? Yes. How did the people change? They were strengthened. And stronger people bearing the same burden felt the burden to be lighter. “My yoke is easy and my burden is light.” (Matt 11:30) It is necessary to pack a load, to bear a burden, in order to be strengthened. The atonement of Jesus Christ not only enables us to be cleansed from sin, but it can strengthen us to do hard things that in our own capacity we could never do. Some of you [may be thinking] "I don’t know if I can do this." Of course you can’t - alone. But in the strength of the Lord, with the help that He will bless you to receive, you can do anything in His strength. Great missionaries in the Book of Mormon said, I will not boast in my own strength, for I know that I am nothing. But I will boast of my God, for in His strength I can do all things (Alma 26:11-12).

Source: Elder Bednar, The Answer is the Doctrine

The answer is always the doctrine

These are notes from a devotional Elder Bednar gave at the MTC in Nov 2010.

Summary
Doctrine is truth, salvational truth, revealed from our Heavenly Father about our eternal progress. A principle is a guideline based on doctrine. And it is specifically intended so that we can righteously exercise our moral agency. Doctrine answers "why?", principle answers "what?", applications answer the question of "how?".

Doctrine
A doctrine almost always answers the question why?

A gospel doctrine is a truth. It is a truth revealed by Heavenly Father to His children here upon the earth. And that revealed truth pertains to our eternal progression. Doctrine is simple, doctrine is foundational, and doctrine is fundamental.

Doctrines are found in the scriptures. They are found in the teachings of the living apostles and prophets. You’ll hear it in General Conference. You find doctrines in the authorized proclamations and declarations that come from the First Presidency and the Twelve. And only the First Presidency and the President of the Church have the authority to definitively determine and declare the doctrines of the gospel of Jesus Christ.

Principle
A principle almost always answers the question what?

A principle is a guideline based on doctrine for the righteous exercise of moral agency.

Application
Applications answer the question of how?

Applications are the actions and things that we do. We focus on applications because we like to think we’re in control. "I’m going to manage this; I’m going to make it happen." ... there is no lasting spiritual impact from simply manipulating applications.

Conclusion
So how do you improve behavior? In a yourself, an investigator, or a child?

The answer is always the doctrine. Not in gimmicky applications, but in the simple pure doctrine and principles of the doctrine of Jesus Christ. A statement from President Packer, “true doctrine understood changes attitudes and behavior.”

Understanding, in the scriptures, is linked to the heart. For example, in Mosiah 12:27, note the relationship between heart and understanding. This is Abinadi teaching, “ye have not applied your hearts to understanding; therefore, ye have not been wise.” Wouldn’t you think that you would apply your mind to understanding? Certainly, but applying your mind to understanding is not enough. It’s a beginning, but it’s not enough. How does revelation come? Thoughts to the mind and feelings to the heart. Apply your heart to understanding. What is understanding? It’s the revealed result. When what we know in our head moves to our heart by the power of revelation, that’s the beginning of understanding. Understanding is what comes by the power of the Holy Ghost not because of the clarity of your explanation. You have to work to explain as clearly as you can, but the best explanation you ever give will never produce understanding in the mind of an investigator. Only the Holy Ghost can do that, and it will be in the heart and not in the mind.

Focusing on actions and behaviors will never change action and behavior in you, in me or in anybody else. The answer is the doctrine. The answer is always the doctrine.

Source: Elder Bednar, The Answer is the Doctrine

Thursday, October 17, 2024

No prayer is ever wasted

Hank Smith told this story on the Follow Him podcast. It was told to him by a friend of his.
[A speaker at] our stake conference ... told the story of losing her daughter. She experienced immense grief and anger at God who would allow this. She said she was given a dream about five days after her daughter's passing.

She was hanging white knuckle over the edge of a cliff with a black void below. She was terrified of falling, but her hands were cut and fatigued, and she was afraid of losing her grip. In her dream she got the impression to let go. This seemed impossible to her because the void below was so dark. She was terrified, but again and again she was impressed to let go, and finally she trusted that feeling and released.

As she was falling, she saw a net of light below her. She could tell it was going to give her a soft safe landing. When she hit the net, she felt wrapped in love and warmth. Then she examined the net and what she saw surprised her. She noticed that there were people at the ends of the net, and that the weave of it was made from light that streamed from them.

She was told in the dream that the strands of the net were made up of the prayers they had offered on her behalf. She saw people close to her who loved her, and they had the brightest and the biggest strands, but she also noticed there were hundreds of people she didn't recognize. She was told that the people she didn't recognize were all the people who had heard what had happened and offered prayers from afar. She closed with the message that no prayer is ever wasted.
We should never think, "Oh, it's just a prayer. It's not doing much." What if it is? What if it is doing more than you think?

Source: Follow Him Podcast

The ultimate test of our discipleship

The ultimate test of our discipleship is found in our willingness to give up and lose our old self and submit our heart and our whole soul to God so that His will becomes ours.
- Elder Ulisses Soares
Source: Aligning Our Will with His

Wednesday, September 25, 2024

The best antidote for worry is work

President Gordon B. Hinckley said the following about the value of work:
There is no substitute under the heavens for productive labor. It is the process by which dreams become realities. It is the process by which idle visions become dynamic achievements.

Most of us are inherently lazy. We would rather play than work. We would rather loaf than work. A little play and a little loafing are good. But it is work that spells the difference in the life of a man or woman. It is stretching our minds and utilizing the skills of our hands that lift us from mediocrity. It is work that provides the food we eat, the clothing we wear, the homes in which we live. We cannot deny the need for work with skilled hands and educated minds if we are to grow and prosper individually and if our nation is to stand tall before the world.
The best antidote I know for worry is work. The best medicine for despair is service. The best cure for weariness is the challenge of helping someone who is even more tired.


Source: Put Your Shoulder to the Wheel

Friday, September 13, 2024

Specific prayer leads to specific answers

The more specific we are with our communication with the Lord, the more specific his answers are in return.
- Dr. Craig Manning
I have noticed this in my own life. The times I have received the most direct answers to my prayers (questions, miracles, etc) is when my prayers have been the most direct and sincere.

Source: Follow Him Podcast

Love vs Lust

Elder Jeffrey R. Holland gave a great description of the some of the differences between love and lust in a conference talk he gave.
Why is lust such a deadly sin? Well, in addition to the completely spirit-destroying impact it has upon our souls, I think it is a sin because it defiles the highest and holiest relationship God has given us in mortality, the love that a man and a woman have for each other and the desire that couple has to bring children into a family intended to be forever. Someone once said that true love must include the idea of permanence. True love endures, but lust changes as quickly as it can turn a pornographic page or glance at yet another potential object for gratification walking by, male or female.

True love we are absolutely giddy about as I am about Sister Holland. We shout it from the housetops, but lust is characterized by shame, stealth and is almost pathologically clandestine.
Source: Place No More for the Enemy of My Soul

A true test of character

The true test of a man's character is what he does when no one is watching.
- Basketball coach John Wooden
Source: Follow Him Podcast

Deeds done in the dark tend to be dark deeds

One of the first signs that you may be doing something you shouldn't be doing is if you try to keep it a secret. ... keeping something secret is hiding because you're ashamed of what you're doing, you don't want people to know and you seek to cover up what you're doing or to hide. ... The first thing that Satan does when we've sinned is to tell us to hide. "Hide. Cover it up." He knows that if we hide that we are not seeking the Lord and we're not seeking light.

It's a good rule to live by. And with adults, it's the same thing. The scriptures say, "Anytime that you endeavor to hide your sin..." There's Adam and Eve in the garden. One of the first things, the first impulse is quick, run, hide. Instead of seek the Lord. Go to the Lord for refuge. The Lord can cleanse you and heal you. Satan knows that that is the pathway to freedom and joy, so he doesn't want us to do that. He wants us to stay in chains and bondage of sin. The only way to do that is to hide and to stay away from the source of light and truth.
Source: Follow Him Podcast

Love is never wasted

Though it may not be reciprocated, such love is never wasted.
- Elder Neal A. Maxwell
Showing love to others by serving them or by reaching out to them is never a bad thing. It does not matter if an invitation is ignored or even if your love is responded to with disdain. We should continue to show love to as many others as we can.

Source: A Brother Offended

Be content with what you have

The less you want, the richer you are. No person has the power to have everything they want, but it is in their power not to want what they don’t have and to cheerfully put to good use what they do have.
- Seneca
It is not the man who has little, but he who desires more, that is poor.
- Seneca
Wealth is the accumulation of all the things you didn't buy but could have.
- The White Coat Investor
It brings more happiness to learn to be content with what we have instead of buying more things. Also, when we do not buy the things we want in the short-term, we are able to afford more in the long-term.

Source: My 27 year old car will make me a multimillionaire
Will more money make me happier
Seneca quotes

Friday, August 30, 2024

Don't duel with the devil

You're smart, you're even exceptional, but you're not that smart. You are not resilient enough to tangle with the adversary. You can never match his cunning or his talent for deception and diversion. He will outsmart, outmaneuver and outlast you every time you willingly consent to a duel.
- Sherry Dew
Alma chapter 47, when Amalakiah was trying to stir up the Lamanites to fight the Nephites, the majority of the Lamanite army refused. They went up to the top of a hill, which was easily defensible, and appointed Lehonti to be their leader. Amalakiah then tried three times to get Lehonti to come down to meet with him. Each time Lehonti refused. Then Amalakiah went up near to the camp of Lehonti and asked him to only come down a little ways and to bring his guards. Amalakiah did everything he could to get Lehonti to come down from his place of security. All Amalakiah needed was just one opening.
Lehonti did not see what was coming. He thought the danger was of Amalakiah attacking him, so he thought he would be safe near his camp with all his guards. But the real danger came later when Amalakiah poisoned him. Lehonti thought he could meet up with Amalakiah and that the meeting would be under Lehonti's control. The control was an illusion.
We should never leave our places of spiritual security.
Source: Sister Sherry Dew BYU Devotional - Living on the Lord's Side of the Line
Alma 47

Monday, August 12, 2024

Between stimulus and response is our agency

Stephen Covey said he found this quotation in a book in Hawaii.
Between stimulus and response, there is a space. And in that space lies our freedom to choose our response. And in that space lies our growth and our happiness.
We are agents for ourselves. When something acts on us, we have received a stimulus of some kind. We are free to choose our response to that stimulus. Growth comes as we overcome our natural insticts, which are usually a negative response. By overcoming the "natural man" we achieve growth. This self-mastery gives us true freedom and lasting happiness.

Source: Follow Him podcast

Friday, July 19, 2024

Enduring caterpillars lets us get to know the butterflies

I must endure the presence of two or three caterpillars if I wish to become acquainted with the butterflies.
The Little Prince offers to protect his Rose from all pests, including caterpillars. The Rose responds with the quote above. We need to be patient with people when they are not at their best and learn to look for the good in them. We also never know how people will change and grow over time.

This is the same Grace that God gives us. We are often acting like a caterpillar but He can see the beautiful butterfly that we can become.

Source: Antoine de Saint-Exupéry, The Little Prince

Temples vs humanitarian aid

Sister Sharon Eubank spoke on this question at a BYU-Idaho student forum in early 2024. She is a humanitarian leader and director organizer in the church.
I'm occasionally asked, "Why doesn't the church spend more money on humanitarian work? Why doesn't it stop building expensive temples and focus its resources on relieving the poor?"

This is a legitimate question for the church of Jesus Christ. But is it money that solves society's ills? The world has poured $2 trillion into addressing chronic issues in Africa. Why isn't the situation better? Because money isn't really the issue. Lasting progress comes through trusted relationships, infrastructure, reducing corruption and the ability of people to work together. Money doesn't necessarily create those things. They must be developed alongside resources and frankly, it's much harder work.

I will never discount the one thing this church does that lifts entire communities in rapid development. It invites men and women of all social classes and backgrounds to enter sacred buildings and make the most binding and important promises of their mortal lives. In those buildings, they promise not to steal, not to lie. They promise to be faithful to their spouse and children and they vow they will seek the interest of their neighbors and be peacemakers and become devoted to the idea that we're all one family, all valued and all alike unto God. If those promises made in holy temples are kept, it transforms society faster than any aid or development project ever could. The greatest charitable development on the planet is for people to bind themselves to God and mean it. Thank goodness the church builds 335 temples and counting. It's the greatest poverty alleviation system in the world.
Source: Follow Him podcast
Link to speech

Tuesday, July 9, 2024

Enjoy the ride

Anyone who imagines that bliss is normal is going to waste a lot of time running around shouting that he’s been robbed. The fact is that most putts don’t drop. Most beef is tough. Most children grow up to be just ordinary people. Most successful marriages require a high degree of mutual toleration. Most jobs are more often dull than otherwise. ...

Life is like an old-time rail journey — delays, sidetracks, smoke, dust, cinders, and jolts, interspersed only occasionally by beautiful vistas and thrilling bursts of speed. The trick is to thank the Lord for letting you have the ride.
- Jenkin Lloyd Jones

Source: Quoted by President Gordon B. Hinckley

Sunday, March 10, 2024

Sometimes the treasure is right at our feet

In 1907 a wealthy Englishman named George Herbert, the fifth Earl of Carnarvon, moved to Egypt and took up an interest in archaeology. He approached a well-known Egyptologist, Howard Carter, and proposed a partnership. Carter would oversee their archaeological excavations, and Carnarvon would provide the funding.

Together they successfully explored a variety of locations. Then they received permission to excavate in the Valley of the Kings, located near modern-day Luxor, where the tombs of many pharaohs had been found. They decided to look for the tomb of King Tutankhamun. Tutankhamun had ascended to the throne of Egypt more than 3,000 years earlier and reigned for 10 years before his unexpected death. He was known to have been buried in the Valley of the Kings, but the location of his tomb was unknown.

Carter and Carnarvon spent five years unsuccessfully searching for Tutankhamun’s tomb. Eventually Carnarvon informed Carter that he was finished with the fruitless quest. Carter pleaded for just one more season of excavation, and Carnarvon relented and agreed to the funding.

Carter realized that the entire floor of the Valley of the Kings had been methodically excavated—except the area of their own base camp. Within a few days of digging there, they found the first steps leading down to the tomb.

When Carter eventually peered into the antechamber of Tutankhamun’s tomb, he saw gold everywhere. After three months of cataloging the contents of the antechamber, they opened the sealed burial chamber in February 1923—100 years ago. This was the most famous archaeological find of the 20th century.

We can sometimes overlook the treasures that are right around us. Little daily miracles, experiences with our friends and family members, opportunities to help others, etc. 

Learn to live in the moment and enjoy life's journey.